I told my sister I was going to blog this and I'm going to: Jordan is a non-floatie swimmer! YEAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! I'm just warning you now, I am really proud of Jordan, so this is going to be the long, drawn out version of Jordan's current swimming success!
Jordan "started" swimming on his own at the very end of June. He had one night where he was exhuberantly swimming to me and back with no floaties-I was so proud of him, as it was the first time that summer I had really taken off his floaties to see what he could do. To see so much ability right off the bat was awesome! His cousin Logan did the same thing that very night-it was just cool to see the light flip on!
Over the next few days, I excitedly took Jordan back into the pool with the expectation that floaties were a thing of the past. I was shocked when he began the sharp decline of a relapse. All of the sudden, he was scared to death of drowning and being without his floaties. I would try to ease him into it. All I got in return was "I just want to go to time out!" You know a kid really won't do it when he prefers time out to trying. I admittedly got very frustrated and for a few days told him, if you can't try, you can't swim at all. After the frustration wore off, I just opted to give up on it for a while and let him put his floaties back on. Very contradictory to my normal philosophies of you-can't-go-back when it comes to child rearing. But I honestly wasn't in the mood to push him, and when I really thought about it, I didn't want to push him if he was legitimately scared. He had gotten so good at diving and flip-diving into the pool; I didn't want to squash his love of swimming. So we gave up.
Fast forward to yesterday. I decided to be very straightforward with Jordan and do swim lessons again. This time I opted to do very short "sessions" and give him breaks every 3 minutes. :) The first time I pulled off his floaties, he cried and I almost gave up right then and there, but he calmed down to just a whimper and we started doing some assisted swimming. After he got down the basics, I had him swim to the step. He did it on his own 3 times before earning his break with a noodle. 10 minutes later, we were doing the same thing. Break. Swim Lesson. Break. And that was it. By the end of it, he wasn't crying at all, though he still reminded me every 30 seconds that he wanted a break with his noodle. It was a good first session.
Fast forward to today. No crying at all, he agreed to swim lessons and we skipped the assisted swim stuff. He swam right to the step on his own with no issues. The next time, he swam longer back to me with no prompting. I was encouraged big time! After a few minutes of this, I had him jump in and swim to me. No issues! Yes! I lightly suggested he jump in the deep end and swim to me, and was surprised that he agreed. Sure enough, he did it a few times, culminating in a final jump and swimming to the steps on his own. Huge progress from a little boy who wanted time out over floatie-less swimming! I told him to take a break with a noodle for a bit and during his "break", he wasn't relying on that noodle-trying to dive down to the bottom, flip over, etc. He was so proud of himself, telling Logan that he didn't have floaties, and asking him to watch him flip over. Logan never hit relapse phase and is a pro-swimmer right now, so I think Jordan was overjoyed to be in the "club" with Logan!
I wouldn't have written this blog post though if it weren't for Uncle Eric. Ooh, shout out to Eric! He started throwing the kids into the pool, which is huge fun in a 10 foot deep pool. Jordan immediately ran to get in line and though I was watching cosely, he didn't need me when Eric threw him in-he swam straight back to the edge of the pool, and got back in line. He did it a good 5 or 6 times, and instead of going to the edge of the pool, started swimming the longer distance to the step. It was at that moment that I thought, okay-he's got it! Yea!
I will still need to really watch him over the next week or so. He's still a bit tentative, and I want to make sure he gets a ton of encouragement. I think our next goal will be to have him dive into the pool and get to the edge on his own-that will be cool to see since he is fearless with diving!
Can you tell I am proud of Jordan today? :) I am! I wish I didn't let myself get so frustrated so easily-its something I have to constantly work on, and I"m glad Jordan is so resilient to let me keep working with him on something he loves. Good day!