I am so very happy to say that today, at approximately 1:10 pm, Jared called me at school, in the middle of math (I'm shocked it rang through) to tell me that he was officially offered a job! It was hard to maintain my professional composure and I had to turn my back on my students in order to stifle my excitement! Jared had been interviewing with this company for the past few weeks, had done the background/reference check and we had been waiting for just about a week to hear back on whether or not he was selected. The stress was lifted this afternoon as Jared was offered a position that he immediately accepted. We have been waiting ofr this day for several weeks....months...years...I've lost count honestly. Regardless, the Lord has truly blessed our family in so many amazing ways, and there was never any need to doubt anything about the direction our family has headed-it has all been a part of the plan and for that, we re so very grateful.
Beginning on October 31st-in a mere 12 days-Jared will start working as an academic advisor at Walden University, which is the same college from which I obtained my masters degree. He'll be working at the Tempe campus, about 20 minute from our house, on a 9-6 shift, which will finally allow him both mornings and evenings with the family....its been a long time since we were all together for those two time periods. He will be on salaray, which is such a nice additive for me in terms of stability. His income is more than mine, which is again a nice perk. His starting salary is actually 3 thousand or so more than what they quoted him-again, another facet of the blessing. Benefits will thankfully be a ton cheaper than mine, which means he will be making that much more than me! He loves the feel of this company/college, and given the positive nature of my experience doing my masters program with Walden, he already has a high opinion of how they run things. He does have to be employed with them for a full month before benefits will begin, so we are super grateful he is starting on Oct 31st rather than a few days into November!
Of course, with Jared starting work in just a few weeks, it means that we will need help with childcare. Again, the Lord has blessed us drastically in this area. As soon as we told our good friends the Kochs that Jared had gotten the job, Rachael immediately volunteered to help with childcare as much as we needed. When we told my mom about the job she immediately gave input on what days she would be able to help out as well. Jared's sister had told us a few weeks ago she could watch them on Fridays since it was her day off! Al in all, we felt so blessed to know our kids would be in good hands while both Jared and I worked. So Jordan and Sara will be with the Kochs on Monday and Tuesday, my Mom on Wednesday and Thursday, and Aubrey (at our house) on Friday. Jared will be able to take JD and Karianna to school before dropping the other kids off to childcare and then heading to work himself (I'll go back to having very early mornings at Guerrero as necessary). Each daycare person will monitor Jordan getting on and off his preschool bus, and they'll walk out to meet JD and Karianna at the bus stop-yes, they will begin riding the bus! I will leave right after school from now on and plan on getting home right around 3:30 to relieve the sitters. We truly recognize the sacrifice this is for those helping out and we are so grateful.
So where does this leave us long term? Well, we will only need childcare for 7 weeks, which is when I'll be off work for maternity leave. At that point, I will be home with the kids all the way through spring break. Before Jared got this job, I was planning to go back to work for the last 10 weeks of school. However, the greatest part of this job is it has opened the doorway for me to come back home sooner-in other words, just not go back after maternity leave. It would mean breaking my contract midyear, which I don't necessarily like the thought of, but which might be the best option for our family. To be totally honest, we are pretty much planning on sailing in that boat. It has become apparent to us lately that I need to be at home with my kids. I am so blessed to have a job I love, and I have been very comfortable and at peace with being the main income provider for the last few years. But we have to recognize how the spirit is orchestrating events to allow me to come home; we feel this is what is happening at this time. It has also been Jared's goal, his most stressful one at that, to make it possible for me to be home with the kids. It has been very hard for him to watch me stress out about work, the financial burden is places on me, and the time I have lost from the kids during the day. He knows I am okay with everything, and he knows his time with the children has been extremely valuable. But there is a reason he has applied like crazy for the last 3 years at every company under the sun-he wanted me to be able to come home. For Jared, this has been an overwhelming blessing and he, in particular is so grateful for what it means for our family.
At this point, we are protecting my job security and insurance during my maternity leave and still "planning" on my returning to work. Realistically speaking, we need to do so just in case something doesn't work out with Jared's job and I do, in fact, need to return to work. You never know what will happen. We also doubt Jared's insurance will cover my pregnancy only 21 days after it is activated.....thus, we need to ensure I am still employed until we settle those hosptial bills, which we are assuming will be around February. At that point though, I will most likely resign and let my long term sub finish out the year (or the likes). This is a hard choice for me, as I don't want any negative association with Mesa Public Schools, but our family comes first and I have to listen to the spirit in this case. We still have a lot of prayers to offer up on this end, but we will be making contingency plans for both possible avenues.
The kids are super excited about this change for our family. They have been praying for Daddy's new job for weeks and they have all commented on what they like about the possibility of me coming home: I can watch JD on the monkey bars, I can pick Karianna up from school, and I can just plain old be there with Jordan. There are so many things that excite me about staying home, but that would fill up way too many virtual blog pages, so I will refrain from listing them. Overall, we are extremely excited and grateful for this blessing. The next 7 weeks will be difficult, but it will work thanks to our family and friends supporting our family. I am working on enjoying my last quarter of working with my 3rd graders-I plan to enjoy every minute of it, especially now that I feel the stress lifting. The prospects are wonderful and I love my fabulous husband to pieces. His love and care for me and my well-being exceeds anything I have ever seen and felt.
Loving my family, loving my husband, loving the Lord!