Sunday, July 12, 2015

Last But Not Least: The OCEAN!

July 12th: We woke up early the final morning to get the hotel cleaned and our bags packed, as we had to check out at 10am.  We really loved this resort, and will return to it at some point down the road.  I purposefully packed all of our beach stuff, extra clothes and lunch stuff so we could do the beach easily.  Thank goodness I did because we had to park quite a ways away from the shoreline at Oceanside Beach!  Once we got to the beach though, it was easy to set up camp, get lunch out to the kids, and just enjoy the sun, sand, and water.  
The kids were somewhat tentative about getting in the water at first.  Jordan was the first to really venture out, of course! Sara and James quickly followed, and JD and Karianna did, though with less enthusiasm.  Jackson didn't care for getting wet, though he was intrigued with all the sand!  I'll just let the pictures do the talking.....
Both Sara and James collected quite a few sea shells, and all the kids took turns packing the buckets with sand.


















Getting braver!
Love this picture-I really do love the ocean!
Oh, look-JD finally joined in!

After playing in the surf for a while, we went to hike the tidal pools just past the pier.  We saw lots of crabs and little fish trapped in the pools.  This was such a neat area to explore-more pics down below...







The power of my camera's self-timer!  Works even while balanced on an uneven rock! Clicking the button and then running to be in this picture proved tricky, but I managed!





Joy!


This is Karianna's famous pose-she does it all the time, and if you ask her, she will tell you this is not her best pose.  I personally think it is perfect!





Trying to get the sand off-never-ending battle, bud!


And with one final look out to the ocean, we packed up and headed back to the car around 3 to make the drive home.  I was sad to leave.  I get so attached to the ocean for some reason, and I was admittedly quiet as we headed back to the car.....I would have stayed all day. But we knew we needed to get back to Mesa at a decent time, so we had to take off.

We made one stop after passing into AZ to get gas and some ice cream at Dairy Queen for the kids. They all slept a good chunk of the way and spent the rest of the time listening to The Garden and our mix CDs.  We pulled into home and you could tell everyone was glad to be there-it didn't take long to unload everything, grab a quick dinner, and head to bed.

I am sad our vacation is over for several reasons, but mostly because we built such great memories as a family....I didn't want that to stop!  Experiences like this make me sit back and realize we can make these types of memories regardless of where we are at-we just have to take the time to enjoy our families and not get caught up in the daily grind of having a big family, keeping the house clean, and working full time.  With a great vacation comes a new goal to strengthen our family dynamic and continue enjoying each other and our time together.  We certainly don't have to wait for next summer's vacation to do that! :)

Farewell, CA!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Dive Meet #5

Here's the obligatory other-kid-picture. :)  I have noticed I tend to post a few other pictures of the other kids when I do dive meet posts, so may as well keep up with the tradition!  
 Tonight's meet was at Skyline, which is a fun pool for the kids-Jackson and James especially loved it!  I had a great seat for the actual dive competition-shady and right up front. Can't get much better than that!  I think I consider today's meet Karianna's best.  She did her dives so, so well today.  She got the highest amount of point she has ever gotten.  She scored straight 6's and one 6.5 on her tuck dive-by far, the best individual score she has gotten all summer-so impressive!!!!!  She had a great attitude, and we were working on that since at the last meet, she got into a habit of shaking her head after coming up from her dive, even when the dive was pretty good!  She can be so hard on herself.  I counseled her to just TRY not shaking her head, but smiling really big-just to see what kind of affect that would have on her level of confidence.  I think it worked today!

She ended up in 3rd place out of 24 girls-the biggest group yet.  The top 5 or 6 girls were neck and neck-it was very clear the scores would be super close, and I felt Karianna could easily get 1st or 6th-that's how close it was.  So 3rd was a pretty darn good average out of those top divers!  She did so very well, I was stinkin' proud of her!

A few highlights-look how high her tuck is-and this is when she was already coming down from it!
 Beautiful lines going into the water.
 Tucking for her front flip...
 And perfect trajectory into the water with her hands at her sides.
 If there was one thing to work on, it was her inward-she frog-legged just a bit, which made her twist a tad bit.  Otherwise, her distance from the board was great, and she went in with nearly straight legs instead of pike legs, which she was working really hard on.

 Smiles all around-a great score and a great meet!
 And yes-she also knows how to do the duck face. ;)

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

A New Job!

I am so excited to announce Jared has officially accepted a job offer!  Beginning on the 7/20, Jared will be working as a Student Mentor in the Business College for Western Governors University, which is the same university I have been working for for the last 2 years.  Jared has been applying to WGU for the past 4 years or so.  It can be really hard to get an interview with them-they have really high standards.  He has interviewed a few times in the past, but never got an official bite.  This time, he really put his all into his interviews, and his expertise in the area of post-secondary education and working with college students really showed-he was such an obvious pick!  Here's the basic timeline:

June 9th-Jared had his first screening interview.  It was clear he has passed that, as they sent him a follow up email with some documents to review, specific to the position, and with a basic timeline of when to expect another call.

June 12th-Jared got a follow up email asking for a second interview from the same guy he did the first interview with.  He scheduled that interview for the following Thursday.  Thursday morning came around, and I intercepted an email from the guy apologizing, that he had double booked Jared and didn't need to interview him again-apparently, it was the same screening interview.  Jared was a little deflated, until I intercepted another email maybe half an hour later from the department manager of the business college asking Jared for a second interview, done via webcam/phone.  That certainly brought his spirits up, and upon chatting with some colleagues who transitioned to WGU, this was a really good sign.  Typically, the second interview is done with a lower level manager, and the third, final interview is done with the department manager--apparently, Jared skipped the second interview entirely-again, a good sign.

June 23rd-Jared interview with Brent, the department manager.  He said it was the hardest interview he has ever done.  Brent was nice, but very clearly wanted to know Jared's exact answers to the questions without beating around the bush at all.  Jared said he was tough, to the point, and no nonsense.  Thankfully, Jared is extremely good at interviews, and handled it like a pro--I know, I eavesdropped the entire time at the door.  ;)  Brent said Jared would know either way in two weeks.  Jared felt really good about everything, and all we could do was pray and wait.

July 6th-Jared got an email from Brent, asking to schedule a time the next day to talk.  We were immediately excited.  If it was a no, we didn't think Brent would ask to schedule a phone conference.  We were trying not to build it up too much, but we felt certain he was going to get a job offer.

July7th-Sure enough, Jared got on the phone with Brent and was extended the official job offer!  YES!  I was again eavesdropping at the door, and was beside myself with joy for Jared-he did such a good job working for this position, and truly must have been the best candidate.

Jared will head to SLC on 7/19 for a week's worth of training.  I'm not looking forward to that, but it is a must.  He will come home with his new laptop and all the equipment he will need.  His position is entirely internet-based, which means he will be working full time from home.  This is the main reason he has been trying for this job for years-he has wanted to work from home for a long time for many reasons.  He is on salary of course, basically the same as what he was making at Walden, but with the added perks of annual bonuses, annual raises (my first was 12%, much better than the 1-3% he was accustomed to at Walden), and less expensive insurance.  The insurance is not as good as what we had at Walden, and I am going to miss that a ton.  We have no anticipated surgeries for James though, so this makes it a good time to transition.  This new insurance has an 80/20 format with deductibles and co-pays, whereas our old insurance was 100% covered with only copays.  The thing is though, the new insurance is much less expensive in terms of premiums.....upon doing the math, if we max out our out-of-pocket expenses with the new plan, it will still be less than our old plan.  So end of the day, it is just a matter of adjusting how we view insurance, and we should be better off-plus, it is still BCBS, so I know all of our providers are already covered-woohoo!

So no more driving to work for Jared! No more fighting traffic, filling up on gas twice a week, sitting in an office away from home all day, losing time with kids, etc.  I am sure it will be a transition for our family once he gets back from SLC, but I am truly excited for it.  Working from home for the past 9 years has taught me a lot about what it takes, and I think that puts us in a good spot to make this transition really smooth.  It will be tricky until school starts in terms of keeping the house quiet, but we can make it work.

All in all-SUPER proud of Jared, and I am so excited for him to finally work for an institution that he can be proud of and really invest in....he has never felt like that about any job before, and I think this may be it.  Go Night Owls!

Monday, July 6, 2015

It is Official!

We have been planning a summer vacation to Seaworld for the past.....wow, maybe 6 months or so?  That's probably about right.  I LOVE Seaworld, and I really want to share that with the kids-I think they are PERFECT ages for a trip like this, and I love the idea of building these memories.

Unfortunately, the kids' behavior has been difficult the last month or so, to the degree that we had a very serious conversation about cancelling the trip.  For all intents and purposes, it has been off for the last month, unless the kids proved to us they could be kind to each other, help around the house, and have good attitudes.  The kids had their ups and downs with this cancellation, sometimes saying they didn't care, and at other times, whispering "Seaworld" to each other when they saw another kid having a poor attitude.  I implemented a new behavior chart a few weeks ago in which the kids have to earn 4 checks in the areas of behavior, cleaning, kindness, and attitude.  It has been working very well, and it has diminished the focus on treats-they have no idea when I will announce it is treat day for those who have 4 checks, they have to focus on getting and keeping their checks for an undetermined amount of time.  I think it has set a really good spirit in the house as we get in the habit of have a christ-like home.

So, we have been telling the kids we would have a family meeting tonight to make the official decision of whether or not we, as a family, have earned the chance to do our vacation.  We gathered together, very somber, and reviewed what the last few weeks had been like from Mom and Dad's perspective.  Then we asked the kids how they thought they had done.  They each had a moment to share their thoughts.  We asked them if they seriously thought we had earned it.  Karianna took the initiative in this moment and pulled all the kids into a group huddle.  Regardless of the situation-this was pretty darn cute!




After huddling, Karianna acted as a spokesperson and said they all agreed they were not perfect, but had worked pretty had to earn their checks, and even though Sara and James did not earn the first round of treats, they knew what they had to do to get them next time, and that shows they learned.  She said they knew if we said yes, they couldn't stop being on their best behavior.  I liked that last sentiment.

Jared and I told the kids we needed some time to talk alone, so the kids went to the other room and sat quietly (for reals) while Jared and I talked.  What was our answer?  Well, here are the reactions when we announced the big decision:





Even Jackson got caught up in the chaos!

So it is official-we are going to Seaworld in 3 days!  Thankfully, Jared and I already booked a hotel just in case ;) and we already have our 2 day Seaworld tickets printed up ;)  Always be prepared, I like to say!

Saturday, July 4, 2015

4th of July 2015

 Happy fourth of July!  I love this family picture, but man, why couldn't Jackson sit still for one more second????  Sigh-always the case when trying to take a family picture!  The next, candid shot is great as well.  Love my family and the memories we make together!

 






 We spent the evening swimming at David and Sarah's house, which will only be their house for a few more weeks given that it is selling.  We rarely take family pictures with the Lautenschlagers, and though getting everyone together is tricky, I was glad to get one shot.
 Not sure what James was trying to say with this smile.....
 All the kiddos swimming together, even baby Olivia in Karianna's arms!
 First time in a puddle jumper, and he did not care for it one bit!  He still loves playing in the water though, which is great!


 We saw a fantastic fireworks show in Gilbert with Grandma and Grandpa.  It was long, so much so, that Jackson got really tired of watching and just wanted to walk around in the burrs and thorny bushes!  Other than that, the show was amazing, probably some of the best fireworks we have ever seen.  Happy 4th!


Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Dive Meet #4

Tonight's meet was at Skyline, which was great for us since we have never been!  We sure did enjoy the lazy river-definitely a reason to come back!  

Karianna did the same dives tonight that she has been working on.  Although she did a few good 1 1/2's at practice, her coach pulled it so she didn't lose her front flip.  Karianna was a bit nervous tonight because of that, but she did great-4th place out of 21 girls, and the competition, once again, was fairly stiff.  Here are the top three highlights, each showing a strong part of her three dives:

I LOVE the height she got on her tuck dive!
 This, by far, is the tightest tuck she has ever gotten in her front flip.  Looks amazing!
 Karianna's biggest challenge with her inward dive is getting too close to the board.  Tonight, she managed to get farther away from the board than I have ever seen, which was just great!  It wasn't her best actual dive, but I liked the improvement to the mechanics of it.  As usual-great job!